tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-60440574362171771462024-02-08T07:46:55.908-08:00The"NOT"ListAn Uncracked mirror pointing directly at today's MENmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.comBlogger106125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-702094318702787862017-08-20T17:47:00.002-07:002017-08-20T17:47:34.475-07:00The Process is yours to accept..trust it..endure it..sigh..humility..That last one though..You have it all figured out at this point don't you? How to input the proper steps thru information learned. Just plug <b>'</b><b>THE'</b> solution into said problem annnd..<b>WTF</b>!?!? Why is this happening.. What do you mean I can't type it into the search engine that knows ALL? <i>That's not fair! </i>How did "<i>they</i>" do it?.."<i><u>They</u></i>" didn't tell me to go that route/or it was going to be <em>that</em> hard(I've realized<i><b> </b>they</i><b> </b>and <i>"</i><i>I heard"</i> is used so many times when asking someone to explain their <strong>own </strong>thoughts in general). Family and friends along the way helped me focus.. most times requiring me to pay attention and <b>E-n-d-u-r-e...</b><br />
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Respect the fact that things will not quite work out how it was first drawn on paper. Your life(blueprint) is something that you'll revise a few times(<i>ONLY!</i><i> a few if you're lucky..</i>) Also have the patience to deal with it as if your life depended on it.. <i>oh! whaddya know...it does..</i>The process to happiness requires a dedication that you've only applied in small amounts..i.e..passing a test,or focusing those efforts on that job/promotion etc.. What were the small challenges and victories doing for you? Preparation..preparing you to evolve into eventual happiness. The process is as long as it should be and as fluid as water. You may feel like you survived a #Ninjawarrior course at different stages throughout(you should). A lot of your personal process will be roads less traveled, 'The <strong>machine</strong>' or The<em> </em><strong>man</strong> we ALL rage against at different times and those <em>'off the cuff</em><em>'</em> spur of the moments. We hope our lives are long and prosperous, but we all soon forget after high school is the long and bumpy journey ahead. What's your stamina like?...Your <strong>endurance</strong> is needed. I'm sorry this you we're talking about, Marathon ready is the answer! The <u>only</u> option, The other option is quitting on<strong>..you? </strong>Your endurance will require the use some of foresight(develop yours). Hindsight in this situation won't hurt, but you'll need to look ahead. Pay close attention to the BULLS**T and <em>snakes</em> placed in your path disguised as 'people that mean you well or situations you <strong>need</strong> to take advantage of...It's virtually anything, the disguises are amazing you'll have to pay close attention..#<strong>maskoff</strong>. These will be the NECESSARY obstacles you'll face continually.Your survival is predicated on your endurance <strong>the entire process</strong> <strong>period.</strong> Humility in my process came early and often. As I grew into an adult my 1st. real job at 18 was the #military. Instantly humbled is the rest of that answer.. Humility is a quality I've seen lacking by the truckloads, but a trait that direly needs to be explored in detail. The size amount varies with each encounter and Individual. There's no set amount, but use often and as needed should be stamped on the label. When I'm humbled in my process, not every incident was/is meant to do harm. I was able to use those times as teaching moments and learning curves. As I learned a bit more I was able to understand it was all a process.. apart of YOUR process,That's why they call it a process. That last part though...Millennium Man my2cents I'm out..millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-39781131259976840242017-04-27T06:45:00.000-07:002017-04-27T06:45:39.234-07:00The Fear(s) in you..deal with them or they'll be ...WAITING..Fear is a healthy emotion in some regards. Displaying fear is something I've never grown accustomed too. "Never let'em see you sweat" was a motto I first heard in a commercial from my youth, and as a young man It became a whisper in my ear as challenges arose and disappeared. The <b><i>fear </i></b>emotion allows you to <i>respect</i> whatever/whomever the situation is pertaining too. The '<i>yipps</i>'..<u>butterflies</u> even <b>'bubble guts' </b>are all signs. The names may change but the emotion you're feeling is the same. Agonizing about why. You get upset for allowing more emotion to show than you wanted. Breathe.. <i>My guy</i>! You're human after all..<br />
<a name='more'></a>Now it's up to you to <b>use </b>it and push thru..evolve. It's up to you to <b>bend </b>it to your will. It takes time and patience to <b>'learn'</b> how best to manipulate your fears, much like the manipulation/<i>managing </i>of all other emotions. I realized rather quickly the <i>fear </i>emotion is definitely not a learn by '<i>Osmosis' </i>or an 'I'll age'(not <i><b><u>grow</u></b> </i>there's a difference) into it achievement<i>. </i>What someone else does to <i>manage</i> theirs may not be the recipe for you. There are triggers you need to learn about yourself before you can deal with issues holding you hostage. Possibly from moving forward into Manhood..Adulthood..Life. I continue to mention <b>learn</b> and <b>you </b>in the same context. In short my hope is to invigorate you, with subtle pressure tactics applied. I'm not certain of ways to eliminate <i>fear </i>or any emotion for that matter. Why concentrate on <u>wishful </u>thinking<u> </u>or theoretically speaking "If I wasn't..." <b>or </b>"If this didn't exist". Unfortunately it does, even if it's a mental obstacle. You deserve to face certain #<b><i>fears</i></b> head on! That...thing! is just in the way. Well that's the hard part. That's <u>YOU! </u> Stung the shit outta me when It was directed at me also..<i>eh..</i>One foot in front of the other is what works best for me. Get started, deal with them one at a time, but deal with them. Remember the <b><i>human thing!</i></b>..MM #millennials#man#love#dating#menslifestyle#women#millennium#fear#emotionmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-87721372355632149642017-03-01T07:36:00.000-08:002017-03-01T07:36:09.704-08:00I packaged this up real nice 4 you all..I've realized what makes people in Today's Tomorrowland move. The "packaging" or the <b>package </b>itself shall I say. Knowledge and information comes from everyone and anywhere. People, places and things may verbalize it. While we tend to <i>learn </i>from inanimate objects. I've drinketh from plenty cups(<b>plural</b>) of said Kool-Aid as I was infatuated, in respect to the 'packaging.'<br />
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<a name='more'></a>Sadly the more observation lead me to realize that all packages weren't meant 4 me! The ability gained over the years to understand and decipher has served me well. Make sure to do your diligent best before you allow contents to enter your '<u>insert trendy word of 2017'. </u>Today I woke up in #<b>beastmode</b>..We believe what's in front of our eyes and listen to what we hear more times than not. Then like <i>magic </i>the hand is quicker than the eye or what you're listening to, isn't <i>exactly</i> what you heard #<b>alternativefacts </b>may have taken it's place. Pay attention, don't get caught gawking..<i>close your mouth!</i> The packaging is exquisite though, should I..yes!!.<b>Insist </b>on understanding and knowing more about said contents before consuming. It's ok to <b>persist..</b>be persistent without feeling like you need to apologize. Again developing your ability to decipher and identify will serve you well. As an adult male I've been past the point of anyone force feeding me anything! You should be too. Alas, it's not required of you to accept <i>bullshhhiiit..</i>as a matter of fact you're expected to #<b>resist </b>if the 'package' in question doesn't quite match contents inside being delivered. Resist the temptation to continue until you full <i><u>understand </u></i>what's really being delivered. My name is De'Andre and I packaged this up real nice 4 you all. I hope you like. Millennium Man out.#love#dating#menslifestyle#men#women#resist #packaging#fathers#veteransmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-79410044485219746382016-12-20T14:44:00.001-08:002016-12-20T14:44:25.656-08:00 Ole School taught me.. Old fashion is always in style!Age in this equation is <b>magnified </b>x's 2<b>. </b>The personal feeling across the board young to old as the seasons up top changed has been refreshing! Even where hair once flowed and the hairline taketh away. Weathering of skin becomes obvious. Even better, technology hasn't eliminated EVERYTHING. Some of us thinking and <b>actually</b> DOING...things! The old slogan "just do it" from a bygone era is still appreciated. Effort in society from<i> men </i>that still <u>give a damn to </u><b><u>challenge and challenges be <i>dammed</i></u></b><u><i>.</i></u>( Heads up guys! guess who make up a <i>vast</i> part of our society.. ask yo mama)? There's a small part of envy I had for those that knew the who, The what and The why before they were adults. I felt rogue, All my actions were definitely resistant to the "Quo". I was living a version of Manhood witnessed directly from '<i>ole school</i>' or an old fashioned way of thinking...<br />
<a name='more'></a>Life and it's experiences were molding me to boot. Merle( My pops..a.k.a..<i>ole school</i>) insisted it built character. You had to witness some things 1st. hand. He could see from an early age the<i> 'cut of my suit'</i> was different. Life wasn't a one size fit all. His talks grew me mentally. Necessary to hear, but to go through it and come out on the other side was the confidence and<b> vision</b> needed...especially conquering issues myself! No blood shed, maybe some tears, but I <b>lived.</b> My very own "Book of life" to review(hindsight) and learn from. I was as brash as any young man. Double fisting experiences with a passion, while life taught me how to date, and <i>feel</i> compassion for others. Applying the old fashioned way of trial and error I forced the learning curve like <b>all </b>other young "Dr.Strange's". The aging was imminent as struggle was anticipated. I embraced learning the <b>old </b>fashion way of figuring things out and applying the knowledge. <b>Evolution</b> was my conclusion. Why must everything change? An actual verbalized compliment? <b>Real</b> conversation, not a LIKE on social media accompanied with a genital pic(guys). Old fashioned dating never really became ..<i>Old</i>?!? We just invented the microwave and then dating became...such is life! <b><i>Ole School </i></b>made sure I learned hard work in any era! It sounds old fashioned from the way things are done today IT IS!! As I look around I appreciate it even more..MM.#love#dating#oldschool#menslifestyle#womenmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-11258299600617323802016-09-29T11:16:00.001-07:002016-09-29T11:16:30.298-07:00The bliss of Ignorance and Men...Still today?!?.I take issue with grown men comfortable with 'Ignorance being bliss theory" STILL. Nowadays the internet has solved all those conundrums that mommy/daddy could not. I believe you make conscious choices to be informed about things you <i>feel</i> still matter. <b>You </b>sir! are a product of <b>Your </b>choices made..or NOT. You're at an age where all responsibility of knowledge is <u>yours.</u> Let the '<b>spoon feeding cease and desist.</b> Searching for life's "blueprint" designed especially for you is something that should be fully experienced and devoured. There's a certain amount of selfishness that comes with the construct of said "blueprint." When you <u><b>adamantly</b></u> refuse to develop your mental(ity)beyond what you made it through high school/college..W.T.F. is that about?!?<br />
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<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="more"></a>Top that off with you being happy about NOT knowing anything about any <b>damn thing</b>? Surprise! laziness and underperformance starring back at you in the mirror. You've probably lingered <b>way too long</b> at a job. Over thinking reasons why you <i>shouldn't </i>press forward. "At least I'm working" is what you tell yourself for validation of productivity, failing yourself?? thinking another person '<i>owe' </i>you something. After a lengthy conversation with yourself in the closest mirror!! A realization ought to come rather quickly <i>"Who the hell </i>do I think I am?"1st. question. 2nd: What's with the feeling of <i>entitlement </i>and<i> </i>expecting more? It allows 'Mr. lackadaisical' to rear its ugly head and take over(he's hiding in most of us, acknowledgement is the key). Yes, It's sad but at different ages of male maturity there's a certain amount of <i>intelligence</i> society expects of us men. At least a passion for acquiring it..<i>just a messenger please don't shoot</i>...Don't be the guy that has no clue. Ignorance is still not bliss no matter what the changing of times dictate..Millennium Man and my 2cents..#menslifestyle#women#dating#love millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-46199828356569602122016-05-06T06:32:00.002-07:002016-05-08T17:44:03.374-07:00Full Disclosure: For years I've been on Purp! Close your eyes with me and party..<div dir="ltr">
The <b>darkness </b>was deafening as a kid. I wasn't popular for reasons out of my control. Being a bit<i> different and difficult..meh! </i>I would consume myself in thought as a form of escapism bringing <b>order </b>to my <b>chaos.. </b>and then <b>MUSIC</b>..I heard a melody dancing in <i>the backdrop of darkness. </i>It<i> </i>was just there! Unidentifiable at first, my youthful 3rd eye couldn't comprehend the sound. It was different?!?I wasn't paying attention. The Purple One was in! He'd infiltrated my mind like<i> a mist. </i>Overwhelming me without knowledge.. Instantly I was <b><i>jarred</i></b> to the core. I was a <i>mature</i> 11yrs old 1982. What is this? WHO was this? Part of me felt like I should be sneaking to listen in the basement like we did Richard Pryor/Redd Foxx records(<i>yes records! </i>#<b>Vinyl</b>)...<br />
<a href="https://www.blogger.com/null" name="more"></a>I'm just a guy with a story to tell like others. My '<i>travels' </i>as a kid led me away from East St. Louis to Texas, Indianapolis,Chicago and a brief stint in Springfield. Finally back to East St Louis after a few years '<i>on the road'</i> until I eventually graduated. The <b>Purp</b>)le One was the constant mental stimuli on my rocky road. My pops really enjoyed Prince! Unbeknownst to most, We would wax on about his skill set and creativity to get you to listen to him. Which for a kid your super hero Dad! Is kool enough to share space with your musical life muse! How triple O.G was that? Fast forward to Reunion Arena in Dallas. As I stated the year is 1982( It was <b>my </b>version of @bryanadams '<i>Summer of 69'</i>) Too young to go, but too late the concert ticket was bought..My cuz Reggie D. skillfully purchased it(<b>spoiler alert;</b> names will not be changed to protect!..I love my big cuz) I have a vivid recollection of my night and all the fun had. Years later The #prince experience still registers with me. He was <b>still </b>someone that I admired well into my adult life, in <b>this day and age</b>. As said before, I'm just a guy with his story to tell about walking into the proverbial <b><i>Purple Rain and stayed there.</i></b>..MM out. #music#prince#purple#genius#innovator#freedom</div>
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Attention! Wait! what time is it?<i abp="618"> </i>I took too long of a pause. I have to get this '<em>liquid fire' </em>mainlined<em> </em>directly into you..'Get in my belly'(s/o to fat bastard <i>circa </i>1999 #Austinpowers <i>google it</i>) It's not enough...It's just NOT...the math was done on scratch paper by primates! <i>you know,</i> the ones used in <b>all</b> things of relevance..<i>duh</i>(Dancing baby monkey ,monkey riding dog, Jane asking the monkey for directions.."<i>waterfall?"...)</i> It's just not enough to be a man or exist as said one. Here's a thought, why not b<strong abp="621">ecome </strong>the Man you envisioned for yourself..despite what everyone thinks you <em abp="622">should </em>be doing to include the parrreennttss!(watch Pursuit of happiness <i abp="623">circa </i>2006 the basketball court scene for clarity..<i abp="624">muy importante</i>') Where's the liberation in that? It indulges future speaking points, teaching moments and hale maybe bonding(<em abp="625">sarcasm).</em> This morning you opened "<em>your eyepods" </em>to yet another day. You ought to be appreciative of spreading your wings once again.To inhale life's' questions and obstacles then attack them head on like a '<i abp="627">Reality housewife'</i>!..</div>
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It's just time young padawan(In my <i>Obi Wan Kenobi to young Luke voice</i>). Another example in my humblest opinion(I'm the author of this soooo) Figuratively speaking<em> </em>Big bro. Dwade to lil<strong><em> 'big azz bro' </em></strong>Lebron also '<em>figuratively' </em>speaking about remaining in Miami at that time. It's time.. go <strong>Become. </strong>It's no longer O.K. to remain dormant. You can <u>obviously,</u> it's your life. Why cheat YOURSELF of getting the most out being a fully formed <strong>man</strong>. The responsibilities/burdens, Ups and the pissed off downs. Then there's falling in LOVE and living another day to<b> repair </b>life after heartbreak/breakup.The journey homeboy! Manhood is a journey and a series of mistakes and ego bruising as you <b>evolve</b> into<strong> </strong>a Man and 'Become' A <strong>King</strong> of your own destiny<strong>..Mufasa </strong>damn it!.<br>
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millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-46147850773838607492016-02-07T13:28:00.000-08:002016-02-07T13:28:24.353-08:00Watch where you shakin' that... thing!! but definately..SHAKE IT like a polaroid..it's 2016!<div abp="604">
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millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-45867993379561322072015-12-16T04:33:00.000-08:002015-12-16T04:33:06.156-08:00Getting older for us MEN..is I dunno..Kewl!.....Tune in for more!I was turning 40! Oh <i>gawwwd..</i>I couldn't believe I was about to lose teeth specifically designed to improve my smile..bump <i>that</i>!.."preventive maintenance" was key, brushing and flossing became more of a religion. Quite frankly it wasn't funny NO MO..too many men I'd known that didn't have Hockey or<b> MMA</b> as a hobby/career were '<b><i>bald mouf</i>' </b>(as Sandra Kay would so eloquently put it). It was something that deftly scared the <i>'ish' </i>out of me.I tend to smile TOO D$MN MUCH! Not to mention I did my share of watching t.v as a kid. <i>plus</i> I really enjoy sports. There was no stopping it from where I was sitting. The Jefferson's (George) and Good Times<i> 'ain't we lucky we got'em'</i>(James..James..JAMES!<i>)</i> was in heavy rotation at my crib.My ole' boy controlled the remote and <u>t.v. guide with every <i>d$mn </i>thing circled already!)</u> 'Money Mike' Jordan was walking on air in the 80's! and 90's with cool azz <i>Bugs Bunny </i>and he couldn't escape the hairline thing. I didn't know what to do! Once the dreaded DNA gene hit or better yet U-N-D-E-F-E-A-T-E-D <u>Father Time. </u>I'm a regular dude (like most) So I didn't have extra to <i>splurge</i> on implants, cosmetic surgeries or <i>Spanx for men...</i> OUT of the '<b>effin'</b> question( try a mudrun, Crossfit..something that involves an ACTION verb..i.e running,<i>dancing</i> lifting..etc.stop limiting yourself saying you don't have time to improve on <b>you</b>). I watched and implemented examples of men that were aging gracefully..i.e.Harry Belafonte, Smokey Robinson,Rev.Timmie McNeese (<i>My Grandfather)</i>..all had tidbits of knowledge that helped. Then I added that <u><i><b>special sauce..</b></i></u><b>..</b> ME! Who else did you think I was gonna say...<br />
<a name='more'></a> Of course their are plenty of examples, but these are a few lighthearted notables you may diig. Oh yeah something <i>kewl</i> start to happen. You become a bit of a"Slumdog Millionaire"(google it <i>circa </i>2008 groovy flick) from experiences alone. You don't necessarily know answers to life's quandaries, buuut You lean on your life! <b>Your</b> hindsight( decisions made earlier in life) make a knucklehead like <u><i>insert your name here</i></u> seem like a smarty pants.. people seem to gravitate towards your expertise on subjects and you have no clue why?!? <i>Who moi'..</i>even the <i>kids and SIGNIFICANT OTHER</i><i>..</i> BONUS! Your unmatched knowledge in jeopardy is only surpassed by your memory of past reruns..sshhh our secret. The house/closet of artifacts you've accumulated or we'll just say AQUIRED over many years that's no longer available is sought after. Now! being re-introduced as "retro,"classic or vintage. As you already know vintage anything, classic anything is <i>always </i>hot! and <b>never</b> out of style. You can't..Umm <i>won't</i> explain when and where you purchased that scarf/t-shirt your kids want to 'acquire' so bad. The classics to include vehicles are guarded like #Buckingham Palace (well some you still need help but we're working on that). I almost forgot those flecks..Yeeaaah those <i>flecks</i> of grey that's starting to appear. Sorry guys this one is a keeper, I did the whole color me bad thing when I had hair but I'm rocking the sunroof now. Occasionally I sport some facial hair and I've been made aware from our lovely women a little bit like cologne goes a long way and it's distinguishing. Well <i>Sir</i>, what more confirmation do you need. I can keep this going all day but you get the gist, glass half full and all that jazz. I'm out..Millennium Man millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-29329256627301981432015-10-07T20:09:00.003-07:002015-10-07T20:09:43.754-07:00Say Man!! HEYYY!..Which "FRIEND" did you ask to co-sign thaaaaat!?!?..The aha! moment is upon you. At this very moment your outlook on life is paramount to becoming the 2.5 version of yourself(I only know of one guy in the year 3000! and he resides in the <u><b>A</b></u>.(tlanta) have been for a while..<i>chillin</i>! (What up <i><b>3!)</b></i> murdered the fur leggings #lightyears.. The biggest mistakes I've seen thus far are MEN confusing <b>'ish'</b> that's just for <i>chicks</i>.. <i><b>pink toes. </b></i><u>slim goodies ..</u>WOMEEN damn it! That's trending at the moment. If you're like most, we live in the moment..<b>FOR</b>..the moment( at least I do)..I follow a few trends, as most of us do. I'm also mature enough to understand. I know when to practice restraint of certain looks, and for me that's foremost! I've been known to posses a certain young spirit(<i>clothes included</i>) Even though it may be the hottest <b>SH*T IN THEM STREETZ</b> <i><b>pimpn</b></i>!!! #ducklips and pouty lips are a <u>NOOO GOOO</u><b> </b>hell naw..cut it out! Who co-signed that look? Which one of your supposed friends said "<i>go </i>ahead<i> </i>press send"?..It was a <i> joke! they made a funny!?!</i> Hehehahah see just playing?!? No one took you serious. Sharing straight <b>'gobbage'...</b>FOOL<br />
<a name='more'></a>I'm a guy so pics of women with pouty lips or the #duckface look is almost prerequisite at this point. I'm good with that. What I am tired of seeing is that <b>same</b> look on a <b>GUY</b> trying to impress a woman/women..WTF!?! This falls into the infamous Shake Weight category(if you must know read previous post"The Shake Weight 1/14/11). Be careful gentleman, It doesn't matter how many '<i>half baked' </i>ideas you come up with or you are forced to endure while checking your social media accounts. THIS IS NOT FOR YOU! Of course it's kinda corny, yep goofy too..sprinkle in a bit of sex appeal and that's why we like it on<i> WOOMMEEEN,</i> but you MY <b>DUDE!</b>..#fuckouttahere.. you need attention buy a dog. Only and I mean only If..corny, goofy azz dude is the new stanky azz leg or #<i>nene</i>..Because you can draw a <u>double line threw</u> ANYTHING dealing with sexy or masculine. Unless you've got that Elvis curl working for you just delete these pics DON"T press send....#men#women#dating. I'm out!..MM millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-67480024659707230352015-08-16T21:42:00.000-07:002015-08-16T21:42:22.927-07:00Manhood O'Manhood where art thou!..YOU START MISSIN..The streetz START talkin..!Mmmm..I like the sound of that...#MANHOOD( The voice in my head is of Mr.Hand while stroking my invisible <i>goatee</i>...Fast times at Ridgemont High#classic). I was under the impression that entering the "Secret Society of Man" I was 'gettin' INCHES boy! A slew of them, spread all over for good measure..if you must know I was hoping to get...tall..er? <i>Yes taller</i>!<i> </i>We'll go with that(It's <i><b>still</b></i> a PG-13 <i>blog).</i> Was I <b>sorely </b>pissed! What I did get was a wealth of knowledge that eluded me..just learning to PEE straight with some consistency "<i>whew"</i> I thought I was <b>doomed!</b> Side-note: The free spirit in me love the fact that certain decisions were made recently that allowed 'people to be people'. I diiiig! Enough of that, back to my soap box..<br />
I've often contended that I/<b>We </b>as men<b> </b>need change in some areas of our daily..but certain I'll say "<b>FEATURES"</b> should stand as defiant as say a..<i>flag!?!</i> My memories of tough guys did #NOT show them as being unkind or not being chivalrous, quite the opposite..Hale the earliest stories I heard about my Uncle Marvin Sr. was something I used to scare friends in the projects while having 1 up stories. His #manhood was/<b>is</b> intact like a chastity belt. Merle said his nickname was '<i>Thug be damned'</i> or SUMTHN<i> </i>on the corner(blocks came later <i>ya'hearrrd</i>) don't quote me on the name. You know how 2nd hand info can be( pops is no longer chillin' with us)..<br />
<a name='more'></a> <i>Sooo</i> my point is he never sacrificed being <i>affectionate</i>, <b>showing compassion</b>, or <u>A gentleman</u> towards Aunt Jewel or anyone else(even thru a scowl and him yelling "AIGHT NOW GONE" <i>we loved it!</i>)..I've had different positive male and <b><u><i>female</i></u></b> influences throughout my life. It wasn't okay til the next time. <b>Teaching</b> moments were exactly that, plus I was THEIRS until I grew into a man of today..The Millennium Man of today. Those moments were never used to embarrass..<i>nah.</i>It had more to do with growth. Things are progressing so fast we sometimes make conscious decisions to leave behind <i>shiiit</i>..we've outgrown. As you enter or walk thru the "Secret Society of Man" these are just a few things OFF TOP! Among a host of others that I think will serve you well to <b>1st</b>. learn <b>2nd</b> no brainer: <u>keep</u> <b>3rd</b> As it was done to me..pay it forward..GONE..MM <br /><br />
<br />millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-59440109272791424922015-07-03T12:13:00.000-07:002015-07-03T12:13:27.341-07:00GOOOOD Morning East St. LOUIS!!! pardon my fresh..'The Boogie'..I had a random thought..This by no way me being disrespectful to the 'Boogie down Bronx.' I would however like to ELEVATE a city in Illinois that's NOT anything like <i>anywhere </i>you've witnessed. A place where the buffalo's<b> </b>and <b>Mudfoots(</b> Fat Albert <i>circa 1972</i>)<b> </b>roam. Some stay to hold the forte. Others move on to tell the tale of the city affectionately known as '<i>the Boogie'</i>. It <b>sharpened</b> edges long before I knew I needed one. Also, what it meant in future endeavors throughout<i><b> </b></i>life!...<b>period</b>. This is two-fold for me..'<i>The Boogie</i>' and the rearing of my older brother Antonio( YES! I dropped his government) in <i>said</i> boogie..I would love to tell you how <i>Ice </i>cold he was in them<i> </i><b>streets</b>..sheeiiit!<i>..THAT'S A LIE</i>! Tony is goofy as HALE If you know him! But you'd love him all the same..<i>Oblong </i>body shape with eyes so small he earned the nickname "<b><i>Chinese n***a</i></b>" as a kid (school was different..sorry for the <b>UN-</b>political correctness of the language but<i>, meh)</i>. The 70's and 80's in '<i>the boogie'</i> were the times<i>,</i> It was a vitally important for me. Not just about <i>girls,</i> <i>joning,ranking </i>or buying clothes getting <i>thorough..</i>etc.For me it was <i>Tony, T-rock TNT,Master prepping, poplocking and break dancing </i><b>UNLIMITED! </b>And yes before you ask THAT was his introduction..<i> <b>dammit man</b>!</i> I'm glad to be from a place that the status quo was <i>"</i><b>Iron </b>sharpening <b>iron</b><i>" </i>daily. Your mettle..<b>MY</b> mettle was tested by my big bro before I stepped out into the city. Where the guarantee was real, no pop quizzes about life here. You will be tested!..En garde young man.."<b>On your guard I say</b>." Arm yourself with the knowledge of understanding what you're about to face, no slight of hand needed. The sparring and brotherly squabbles I had with tony prepared me for the daily grind. No "soft shoeing" for my guy when it came to the verbal( the knowledge was like second hand smoke straight from San & Merle). Despite his demeanor or what it seemed outside the crib..He wore a lot of "<i>stripes</i>" in place of his little bro..A many of days man..A many of days..Am I my brothers keeper<i>..</i>I didn't know that was a question..I grew up with my very own odd shaped, goofy ass big brother <i>Super</i><i>hero</i> thing happening....#goodmorningeaststlouis..Love is Love..MMmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-54089583632925682412015-03-11T14:54:00.003-07:002015-03-11T14:54:28.751-07:00Because I was thinking about you....Those times when I thought.."Mom I got it"(she allowed us kids call her San) "I can do it all by myself" and then my WHATHEFUKEVA! kicked in..I dunno if it's called stubbornness<i><b> </b></i>or '<i><b>being grown</b></i>' at an early age but..."I CAN DO IT"! (of course she stepped aside.. As she never stood in the way of us kids being independent...<b><i>not grown </i></b>their is a difference). I wanna say at 4y.o. I was going on 25! AFTER many failed attempts, I looked back for her with defeat in my eyes. Not knowing what happened or <b><i>where she</i></b> WENT!!! Sannn.. I'm bombing here, the love your <i>life?</i>! She became <b>'The watcher'</b> from a distance. Watching..observing..slightly chuckling..She then asked the 64,000 dollar question. "Are you quitting? or do you need help?"( the task was the task it didn't matter to her WHAT it was, so don't get hung up on that) Huh?..what kind of crazy question is that. Of course I quit if given the choice, the task was too hard. She repeated the question more succinct while starring into my eyes.."Are you giving up? or do you need help". Immediately my little mind was working to understand the choices. I knew I didn't want to disappoint my favorite girl..plus as a caveat she was the strongest person I'd <b><u>ever known</u></b> hands down, bar none, put A RING ON IT!( Now passed away, it <b><i>still </i></b>remains true of any person I've come across)..<br />
<a name='more'></a>Fast forward 40+ years of life hasn't changed much. Those initial questions are very relevant to my growth. My mind still race a thousand miles an hour when the choice of quitting or asking for help presents itself. I've also added another dimension thru the years<b>.</b> Are you really trying? or you just <b><i>bullsh$tting</i></b>? That part was given to me with <i>'no chaser'</i> from my very own muse in life..'My<i> Ole boy</i>' <b>Merle. </b>He would enlighten me and Tony with STORIES! His own experiences were examples of <i>bullsh$tting. </i>He would say, "Chances are you'll probably still receive the help. But, <b>you</b> know the truth to that question don't you?" You start <b>lieing </b>or<i> hurting</i> the ones that will help you regardless. If that means nothing to you NOW..Trust me"life is a marathon..not a sprint". It has a way of shaping "<i><u>all for you I might add</u></i>" an Uncracked mirror of <b>your </b>decisions and placing them at your feet. Be careful, they may sting a bit when confronted. He gave that tidbit of info to his granddaughter lastly before he passed. They both challenged me not 2 just <b>be </b>the status quo. Expand/raise the status quo if possible..Which in turn <b>I</b> continue 2 challenge myself.This is just a post to say I love ya'll and Because I was thinking of you.. for my 2cents #youandthe6 did a bang up job(s/o #drake)..MM millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-18091856829124899082015-02-03T13:13:00.000-08:002015-02-03T13:13:41.172-08:00To be or NOT to be..A sore loser..not cool after..I've always wanted to write this post. It's been writing itself for the past 8yrs at the very <b><i>least (</i></b>s./o. to #potus). It's real amongst a lot of today's adults..sigh..let's get it. What was taught you ask? How to take a loss IN ANYTHING! absorb it in some ways similar to a win and even <i>try </i>being gracious in a loss.. make sense? As a kid it took me time to learn and it <i>maaay have</i> spread into early adulthood for some, but you learned. Why? Because you seem <b>petty </b>as an adult <b><i>sore loser</i></b>! No hashtags..nope! no made up fancy words combined for trending purposes.<i>.No sir</i>! It's a regular word in heavy rotation in Websters..<b>petty.</b> "<i>You can't win'em all</i>" was ingrained in the noggin as early as a competitive streak was noticed <u><b>at home</b></u>! Society wasn't like it is today. My parents/aunts,uncles,grandparents etc. Did not/<b>was not </b>entrusting society to hopefully teach me life lessons. I still remember a certain '<i>rotund' </i>basketball player constantly stating "I'm not a role model" so true. To be or not to be a sore loser is the ? My personal(<i>my blog</i>) belief is that it lowers the value of whatever it is you're so agitated about. Also, it's an unfiltered look at YOU as a person. Getting caught up in the masses is easy.All things being social you're tried in the public's opinion anyway..<br />
<a name='more'></a>Being a #soreloser as an adult may not count against your credit score, and before you ask I checked on it. I'm positive you can't claim it as earned income credit on your taxes..<i>damn damn damn James! </i>I thought I had something for the coupon crowd. Oh well, guess you have to settle for not being mentioned in the same sentence as petty, sore loser and <i><b>assh*le</b></i>.The Rudolph treatment may already be apart of your life (not being invited,wanted or asked to participate in ANYTHING with your "<i>friends"</i>) and have been for a while now. It doesn't have to be in your future. Making excuses for being alone when everyone around you is having fun. I get the whole glass half full type of thing(positive thinking)..you <i>funny</i> though..<b>cut it out</b>.The sooner you realize that some things are okay to leave in your adolescence(childhood for the <b>s-l-o-w-b-l-i-n-k-</b>). The better you'll feel and trust me you'll look <i>Waaaay </i>better. I figured that's how we all see ourselves or want to be seen. I<i> </i>watched the same t.v. program as @ 114 million people a couple days ago.. The Superbowl...duh.. those with questions <i>refer to </i>slow blink. I thoroughly enjoyed the game and both teams played good (my inner rasheed wallace comes out) but this post seems to fit..I'm just sayin..MMmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-30092712533997476262015-01-23T05:41:00.001-08:002015-01-23T05:41:21.697-08:00Clean up your house already...it's 2015!Days of the odd couple(Google it) Ala' Felix Unger lashing out at <i>'Oscar' </i>for being filthy are unceremoniously over (good riddance). I mean if you want company at your home at any point in your LIFE..male/female you pick!!It's real simple, most guys think their level of clean is sufficient..chances are..<i><b>meh! </b></i>If you are unfamiliar with cleanliness ask a woman in your life that'll take pity on your soul. Plead to her compassionate side. Maybe to stop by once in awhile for reinforcement pointers if needed. The small chance that your ego and eardrums will survive the constant ridicule,loneliness and different hand lotions from Bath and BodyWork are low.. but HEY! there's something for everyone, shout out to all the 40 year old virgins with supple hands. Especially the one's with the high score on games that most people don't care about ANY DAMN WAY. I'm not saying go overboard and start obsessing. No need to develop a nervous tick or 'I declare war' on a family member's head if things are out of place(see Deuce Bigalow and Monk) Instead why not start a simple habit..Maybe try giving yourself enough time to clean/pick up behind yourself(you know the stuff that your mom <b>screamed</b> at you about as a CHILD) before you leave your house. That way you won't have much to do if company follows you home or you get a surprise visitor..<i>How many surprise visitors have you had by #NOT cleaning up gotten you in the past?..I'm just saying..allow me to continue.</i> I'm one for having a warm feeling to my place.."lived in" as some would say. Having an inviting place that someone wouldn't mind being in <i>besiiides you </i>is not bad..try it. You've obviously done the leg work to move out on your own. Now is not the time to bottle up! GIVE yourself as many chances as you can in the friends/dating arena(NON VIRTUAL) <u><b>no internet</b></u> <u><b>connection</b></u> is needed here.Wow! yeah that just happened I threw a <i>bumgarner</i> curve right atcha'...concentrate grasshopper.. your goal is to <b>attract </b>friends. Just <b>K.i.S.S.(</b>keep it simple stupid). let's not make things hard. Almost forgot, there's a certain amount of <i>want<b> </b></i>and <i><b>laziness </b></i>that you may have to confront...MMmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-21829352052628874012014-12-03T06:08:00.000-08:002015-01-16T04:38:08.993-08:00Rich Dad.. nah!..poor Dad..not so much either, but KOOL Dad!!."I'll take some of that action!Ah..why yes, I'll take some of that action as the title states. Being at the edge of darkness with a teenager( a girl no-less). "The <b>end of the WORLD </b>as we know it"!<b> </b>Has come and gone a few times. We're still breathing( <i>golf clap<b> </b></i><b>+ <i>mom's burning skull stare down,equipped w/smirk & attachments</i></b>). The days flipped by so fast I lost count. I kinda waited for the 'other shoe to drop' looking for the "Dad I hate you rant" or the "Where's mom because <i>dad</i> you're just <i>dad! </i>you don't/wouldn't understand conversation". Don't get me wrong I've gotten on her nerves, YEEAAHH BUDDY! I've heard it through the mom pipeline. Ultimately they grow up and move out..or act like they <i>triiied.</i>The point I'm making is when they're old enough to <i>want </i>you around other than their prerequisite A.T.M.(If you have kids you have my permission to rock the <b>#4life</b> t-shirt). I honestly don't know what I've done to earn favor. "<i>She likes me..she likes me..Hey Mikey"!</i> I was deemed the <b>heavy </b>in my family. Even though her mom got right down to it at the drop of a hat. In my own family it was always "wait til <i>Merle</i> get's here" or "when I tell M<i>erle</i> about:<u> insert <b>WHATEVA</b> dumba** thing of the day(</u><i>like ordering a flavored coffee drink)</i><u>! </u>I don't think you really sign up to be the <b>heavy</b> though, I think you're kind of nominated..sigh..such is life..<i>whateva'. </i>After awhile I stopped waiting...almost wishful thinking that my #ultimatefail came quickly.I couldn't wait to start the repair process. The slow start was baffling though..gotta' tell ya. I was preparing like I was a 'Dooms day prepper' or gearing up for The Zombie Apocalypse somehow!?! Then prom..WOW!!!Graduation was both liberating and freeing,but wait..<b>s-l-o-w-d-o-w-n </b>things were happening so fast. During those times you do a bit of reminiscing with your minion(s). They tell you stories about how <b>you </b>saved the day.. and not once..huh, who would've thunk?<b> </b>It's those times you don't think they remember. <i>Uh oh</i>! They remind us in vivid detail(immediate image of dad in commercial on sidewalk with what appears to be his little girl practicing her cheerleader cheers)..it's groovy Google it..<br />
<a name='more'></a>The first time I got 'the call' <i>not that one..yet..</i>no, it was the" I'm taking <b>You </b>out" phone call. Well you already know...I shaved,brushed and threw on some <i>smell good(</i>going on a special date with my sweetie) I figured at the very least the lessons can't stop now( Aren't you a Millennium Man...Yet?) check it out..<br />
I was smiling on the inside from constant insistence to keep my money in my pocket. Still reeling from the aftershock! I allowed her to pay after a few outings( she said she was serious..no doubt ..) I felt compelled to share a cool journey for <i>me. </i>The reason...why not! Nope it's not a child being disrespectful to their parents.so the hashtags and Likes may not come in abundance on this one..I'm good on that. Personally I see nothing wrong with by no means being the richest/poorest,but my <i><u><b>daughter</b></u> </i>thinks I'm the coolest thing ever <b>still..</b>I'll take some of that action..MM millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-23810778724329594912014-09-03T11:51:00.001-07:002014-09-04T11:58:05.423-07:00The building of the BACKBONE! The latest trend and tested very high in focus groups!!!Very few things bother me since the turn of the century..I find myself asking or trying my best to answer these <i>quandaries </i>we'll call them. The <b>backbone.. </b>from experience is suppose to gain strength as you age. The adolescence of a young man is crucial, I <b>speak </b>from 1st.hand knowledge. The proverbial building<i> </i>of a backbone start as soon as you can walk.<b> Understood</b>,<i>challenged </i>and <i><b>acknowledged</b></i>
while going thru those male adolescent years. Some things cannot be
duplicated online gaming or #twitterbeef/facebook rants and message boards.Verbal
jousting(joning/ranking <i>some</i> call it) is a cruel albeit
innocent way of coming of age(and so necessary). It introduces you to trash talking early in life. Whereas you're not a <b>fully formed adult male</b> and still <u>NEED</u> your<u> </u>mommy/daddy to do all your damn leg work. There's a point in your life as a man(operative word)<b> </b>BACKBONE decisions <b>will need</b> to be made and <i>expected </i>of you!<b> </b>Ownership
and responsibility are things that randomly come up when mentioning
anything that resembles a <b>spine=man</b>. At this point your 'proverbial' <b>backbone </b>should've been in full use now for some years. I don't wanna' hear how you put your foot down to get the newest gaming system/phone..<i>Oh but the No <b>Sir!</b>!</i> I mean a decision of merit YOU made with weight or responsibility attached. Buying a car, purchasing a home, moving out of your parents humble abode/<b>or not </b>etc..Deductive reasoning and talking to oneself about <b>not </b>making such a decision is human nature, no judgement here(The pimp hand is cocked in standby mode) but to walk through life with someone else making all of your tough decisions..<i>for shame!! </i>You may as well let them carry your <b>scrotum</b> and all it's attachments. I remember it being an honor to do your last name proud. Nowadays we'll change it in a New York minute for a gimmick.. say word #ochocinco(no shade #factsonly)..I can run with this but you get the gist...MMmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-11834532172860406792014-05-27T13:51:00.002-07:002014-05-29T18:17:03.226-07:00Eye candy...Really? Im a Guy?!?Here's the <b>deal?!? </b>I've heard from the <i><b>Women</b></i>. It's true!!<i> </i>it's so true <i>Run Quickly</i>!! The verdict is here to stay. They want more pictures of YOU!(<b>less</b> in the bathroom shirtless of course.. <i>naughty naughty boy #</i>tasteless) But yes! more pictures of you. The popularity of online dating is a fact that can't be denied. The trending look of bearded characters and their pets looking identical..without <i>photo-shop</i> is The 'shiznit' for friends&family(insert only a face that____ would love) JUST them though..<i> But then there's this post I'm writing.</i> Fact is, taking numerous pictures juuust to get the right one is annoying as HALE to me also..<br />
<a name='more'></a>Ask my daughter whom I refer to. She's a pro at stopping,posing and smiling on que. It doesn't matter how many ques!! I have hundreds of camera pics to prove it(young adults/camera phones= amateur #AnnieLiebovitz <i>Google </i>her) I'm guessing that since 'WE'(Us men) require so much attention <i>I'm paraphrasing here</i> the before mentioned complaints are relevant! #Whathefuckeva it's time to take a little pride in the images we send out as a true<i> </i>representation of all that<i> <b>boiling hot</b> <b>maleness </b></i>you have stored up. The excuses has come to a screeching halt(insert Heisman pose here). It's no longer acceptable to post images of anything from the jungle kingdom or your '<i>extra curricular</i>' activities/hobby as a pic of you..A very loud <i><b>Eeewww</b></i>!!comes to mind. In conclusion as I refer to someone more camera savvy. Find the nearest girl/daughter/female in your life to help you in this arena..Trust me on this I've done the homework.(shout out to #apimpnameslickback #boondocks)..MMmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-56696686360642687082014-03-26T05:16:00.001-07:002014-03-26T05:16:52.351-07:00Friends! How many of us have them...<b>I mean the <i>real</i> kind!</b> The boundary between <b>real</b>(ity)and virtual friends has s-l-o-w-l-y become a <b><i>#</i></b><i>blurredline</i> in some<b> </b>of our minds. The rate in which people are acquiring "friends"on social media speaks for itself. Some think posting <i>'errthang'</i> that comes to mind, <i><b>or</b></i> a bunch of likes and you're somehow kindred spirits.The <b>X</b> amount of "thumbs up" and smiley faces that people...<i>"shiiit!</i>..<i>my bad"</i>,. <i><b>FRIENDS!</b></i> (got to be more careful,I nearly offended a generation) click in your direction, The more and <b>more</b> SHARING you do?!?<br />
Nowadays the landscape of America has changed before our very eyes. This post became special to me in the middle of writing. I had an unannounced guest show up on my doorstep after 25yrs... <br />
<a name='more'></a>Tongue tied and speechless I stared back at a face that I hadn't seen since I was in high school. One of my closest friends since childhood drove 400+ miles on a whim..to see..<b><i>me!</i></b> First thing I thought about was the race he<i>"claims" </i>he beat me in because of a false start..<b><i>Let's rock #marriedwithchildren </i></b>#bloodonthedancefloor)<i> </i>All playing aside,we found each other just two weeks prior on Facebook. Instant nostalgia! Without saying a word our faces spoke volumes and brought waves of memories. <b><i>Likes,thumbs up and shares</i></b> will never quite feel like a smile or reminiscing of past mischief's and shenanigans. I had to ask him again after a few hours of catching up."Are you in town for business for real?" His reply was no..I wanted to see my friend... I was humbled to say the least. It also made me look inward and ask questions? Namely: What type of friend are <i>you</i>? Followed by:Do you consider yourself a <b><i>real/good</i></b> friend?<b>*Disclaimer* </b>individual(s) <b>was</b> harmed after wife made sure of a great visit with his friend and safe return. I'm assuming because of no <i><b>prior</b></i> knowledge of impromptu trip #hindsight. We laughed about it later and he admitted it was well worth the <b>2</b> "Moe" slaps to the back of the noggin <i>Google</i> Three Stooges..<b>**Double note**</b>Bonus points or at least a cool teaching moment if you can name what group sings the title song.... It's A pair of 80's hip hop impresarios. YouTube the song you may learn something..<b>MM</b> millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-86514098572985744662014-02-05T11:10:00.000-08:002014-02-05T11:10:26.030-08:00Diary of a Wimpy A$$ Kid(Man)..Stop..stop! Hold the hell on. I've written about the sign of the times lately and "<i><b>nice guys</b></i>" finishing first. Somewhere in the <i><b>proverbial</b> </i>laundry chute a few signals may have been crossed...A WIMP! was #<b>not</b> to be mistaken for being a <b>nice</b> guy. Being a wimp is something you may not readily admit(I can dig it). Obviously it's something you wouldn't shout from the rafters, but something that's definitely curable. Security for women is one of the most popular answers given(even from the most independent) when asked questions about what they need to"<b>FEEL</b>" in a relationship(PG-13 version ladies)...<br />
<a name='more'></a> Back to you my friend.To be viewed as a wimpy man?..hmm lets ponder that. There's nothing less appealing to your woman/<i>significant</i> other(you being the supposed dominant figure) of them continued taking on the masculine role with you <b>allowing </b>it to happen. Showing them no sign of a tangible backbone(<i>banana back and Carpet Man </i>are names regularly flung in your direction<i>)</i> on the horizon and you see nothing wrong with it. I would really like to wax on about how to grab your<i><b> cojones, </b></i>But I definitely believe certain things are apart of the maturation process.To be a nice guy in a world 'chock' full of a%%holes is not always appreciated. Every corner you turn seems to multiply by 2 with every '<i><b>winter vortex</b></i>'...But a Wimp as a grown <b>a%%</b> man is never a good look. When you stand up for yourself the immediate sense of gratification and <b><i>adrenaline rush</i></b>(shout out to #twister) is undeniable.Try it...you'll like..I promise. Once you do it turn as fast as you can to your significant OR tell them what you did. Stood up for yourself if they're not around and watch the immediate smile of gratification...and this time the <i><b>adrenaline rush</b> </i>will be appropriate for later..wink wink...MMmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-40270694008971988382014-01-08T09:39:00.001-08:002014-01-08T09:39:23.049-08:00Too cool to work?...I hope a passing trend.It's 2014 people! I hope <b>Too cool</b> is NOT the new<i> Ish!</i> I'm talking about today's lack of <b>work ethic </b>in adult fully formed men! I remember years ago <i>hard working </i>was a trait to be proud of and men had to have it across the board in <i>spade</i> <b>period! </b>It was understood without question. To get the pretty girl to go out on a date... The job/promotion or business whatever was needed, but hard work and <b>elbow grease </b>was required. I've since been witnessing the <b><i>coddling of men in America</i></b><i> </i>specifically.... As a man<b><i> </i></b>that's whom I address with a perplexed look.Understand when I say this post addresses a trend(hopefully passing) of men being <b>too cool</b> to work(a regular <b>j.o.b. </b>mind you). A trait needed to survive and navigate today's world and a necessity you can't afford to go without.I was always under the impression working hard for your money...legally!..(sigh,sad I still have to include that disclaimer but whatever man) was great for your self esteem(<i><b>swag)</b></i> and did more for your look than any materialistic item you could buy. Ask for a clue or buy a vowel, #Alex Tribek is rapping answers on jeopardy! He may give you a few: <i><b>What is you need one</b></i>?..answer: A work ethic!! Tightened up soft shoe!! Ask around..know that sex appeal comes with a steady job(or able to maintain one) and a <b>work ethic</b> attached to it..<i>always did.</i>There are other things in life that you may need help with..But This..THIS ISH RIGHT HERE!! It's alll you homeboy no excuses. Don't get left behind keeping your #swag alive or busy trying to #turn up saying #it is what it is...I'm just sayn.MMmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-43089343590030354512013-11-18T16:42:00.001-08:002013-11-18T16:42:54.383-08:00The Pain in the A$$ guy!!!<b><i>The pain</i></b>... the person that chafes areas of your body you can't soothe in public...you know'em. Even when in your presence it hurts <b><i>your</i></b> feelings <b><i>not</i> </b>to lay hands on them(I've just seen Due Date..so I know you've warned this person about when you see red) The <b><i>most</i></b> baffling thing about this person is they know and could care less about being "phucking" annoying to anyone within earshot. Anything serious going on and they seem to find time to crack an inappropriate joke/gesture(I was just playing is the <i>quote of the moment</i> or a dumbfounded expression of I just 'shat' my pants look on their face). No one takes you <b>remotely </b>serious, why you ask?<br />
<a name='more'></a><b>PERCEPTION</b> is the reality of life for most people. They're not even going to take the time to get to know you #realityt.v. You're the pain in the a$$ guy! Everything about you is...well...a joke!(per the perception <b>you've</b> created for yourself) for lack of a better word. Women tend to express things to them that are important for companionship, friendship and happiness. Annoying<b> a<i>$$hole pain in the a$$ guy, </i></b>I found barely hanging at the bottom of the list. There's always a segment of society that enjoys the pain... i.e. there's a segment of society that love "Biiaaatchess" similar analogy with about 6 degrees of separation. Start paying attention to your surroundings(<b>**hint**</b> women may amuse us by starring in our general direction, <i>but</i> they could care less what level we achieved in Call of Duty) people enjoy talking if you have time to <b>listen(</b> pay particular close attention to women <b>**hint**</b>) I'm just sayn'<b>..MM</b>millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-90950851220108654442013-11-12T09:27:00.003-08:002013-11-12T09:30:07.898-08:00The "Nice guy" that finishes first..I've noticed the tide has changed. The whole movement is sort of..well..you know..<i>suspect?</i> I'm pleased... and IIIII <b>like it</b>! The whole <i>cliche' </i>of nice guys finishing <b>last!</b> became one for good reason. We've all seen this shinning moments' favorite nice guy actor James Marsden (sorry but the shoe fits) <i>figuratively</i> speaking... get the<i><b> "Heisman </b></i>to the grill"! In a lot of movies JUST for smiling and being a nice guy! Even all around do-gooder and super nice guy Superman(Returns) couldn't resist a chance to '<i>chump' </i>Mr. Nice Guy. He shows back up on the scene after being gone for <b>awhile</b><i> </i>lets just say, politely and with a smile(no doubt) hands Mr. nice guy another undeserved "<b><i>Heisman </i></b>to the grill" and leaves with Lois! go figure.<br />
Leave it to the evolution of times <i><b>and</b></i> listening to Dr. Phil! I'm no Nostradamus, I'm not even Cleo! but the prediction of nice guys finishing last is/has become passe'(see once again <i>Dr</i>. <i>Phil</i>) I remember years back It was 'Hip to be square'(Huey Lewis and the News <i>circa </i>1987). At times when we least expect it, WHAM!..<i>woogedy boogedy..</i>.<b>Times</b> <b>change</b> and not always for the better, this time though it's for the better(my 2 cents). Men, I know you hear the outcry in all forums<i>, </i><b>because I do</b> that <i>chivalry </i>is not dead! Why not better your chances? If there's so much of a demand on something. We(men) are obviously the world's 'supplier'...I'm waiting for the 1+1= 2 thing to kick in... Once that happens read Two more blogs, you should be o.k. by morning, repeat as needed...<strong><em>You're welcome.</em></strong>MMmillenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-53902570731434902422013-08-19T05:51:00.000-07:002013-08-19T05:51:27.531-07:00Be a man..and Be the Man...AlwaysEnough already! The contemplation of what's a man to do in these social and politically correct times...enough! I'm tired of hearing the complaints <i>damn it</i>! Do I take the initiative or not? Should I ask her out or continue texting her being goofy as <b>HELL</b>..Do I pay for the date like it's corny to be a gentleman? hmm.. seems to me that was part of how <b>men(</b>inserted here for ownership and responsibility purposes) got the girl way, way back in the day<i>..</i>pre-internet/cellphone<i>'</i>(hint: you're interested that's why you want to/asked her out I'm assuming)...Before I was thought of, there was a superstar by the name of "Marty Mcfly" from Back to the Future fame(look it up youngn') grabbed his Ben Wa's...Yep! He gave <i>ye ole</i> confidence boosters' a tug and the rest shall we say made a classic movie. Whether pushed or prodded <b>he </b>initiated<i><b> </b></i>a sequence of events. Be a man...Be the man..always. If you really think about it, that statement can be applied to most if not ANY situation, and by all likely hood continually evolve. But to regress on the basics of how to ask someone out and should you pay the check? Must be a lapse in judgement..that <b>cannot</b> be what we've resorted to as men of today. What I've been hearing is gibberish right?..<i>right?.</i><br />
<a name='more'></a><!--more-->millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6044057436217177146.post-29245264293081267472013-08-16T14:25:00.004-07:002018-04-17T06:32:28.829-07:00 No more...All Hale the Ball fro?In my mind I'm like <b>BRUH</b>...why am I addressing this. It's <i><b>2000 something</b></i> or another! Personally I feel like there's been an all out attack on women and their hairless/sculpted <i>nether regions</i> since the Internet age.(mid 90's give or take not the point) My personal preference is..<i>who cares</i>. America has obviously taken great interest in polling the data and it has occurred to me that what's good for the goose is good for the gander. The immediate and overwhelming response...<br />
<a name='more'></a><i><b>The Ball Fro has to go..</b></i>let that wash over you like <i>badass </i>breath!<b> </b>Eagle Nest1!..Alcatraz!! whateva! A deserted island with a <i>wilted, </i><b>lone</b> palm tree standing alone barely getting water... Aside from it just looks better. Health reasons should be number one and <i>smell </i>is <b>without passing go 2nd!</b> It's one thing to walk around rocking <i>'Ye Ole Honest Abe' </i>up<i> </i>top. As hair grow towards your mid to lower region...there's no reason for you to stay nostalgic my friend. You are obviously confused with that 70's t.v. show and reality...<b>In real life </b>you will drastically cut down your percentage to attract and/or keep the attention of anyone in this day and age,plus why hurt your odds...honestly? Believe me homeboy I've been around long enough to hear the constant and I do mean <b><i>constant!</i></b> reminders of how much women (you have a mother/sisters no excuses) go through all the time for any occasion to get "pretty" for their significant..My advice for you is to at least put in an effort. Show that you care somewhat about your appearance. Obviously continued visitation to your 'playground' will probably depend on how clean you keep the 'area'....I'm just sayin'....#millenniumman1millenniumman1http://www.blogger.com/profile/01215700337385456454noreply@blogger.com0