The 4 Unofficial Rules to the Official "handshake" bet...just between us men

Try to keep up as we travel down the 'rabbit hole' #1 Trust: before the thought of a wager is even uttered out of any one's mouth. You already know the person is trustworthy without running a "credit check". You know because of #2 the eyes to the soul: Real men live and die by the same G-Code(#guy code) everywhere!!! It matters not race,religion or class.If you're man enough to throw down a gauntlet and make/take a challenge, your character is on the line. **Note to women**most times the prize is never worth the challenge. We simply don't want to lose the bet...any BET! It really is that simple. Think of the Dukes in the movie Trading places (circa 1983) all of the havoc they caused for the sake of not losing the handshake bet! $1.00. The next one has lost it's substance with the younger generation but it's as important as your name.#3 Your word: It's that simple, If your word has no substance everyone will indeed know your name but not in a good way. Remember this slogan, "Your word is your BOND" I'm sorry gentlemen as a man the bar was set many many years before The Constitution was written..No it's not just slang or rap lyrics. Learn it,then earn it that's the ONLY way no shortcuts.last but not least #4 The Handshake: Lock it down! Not to be taken for granted this last detail is equal to 'signing the dotted line.The handshake must be performed all at once**alert*alert*alert (A firm grip is required) trust,the stare, your word and your bond seals the deal of the Unofficial Official rules to the oldest merger on record.. The handshake..MM

Ahh...the courtesy flush" often misdiagnosed or misrepresented!!

Let's dive right in. The courtesy flush...Yeah, I said it! I bet some of you are sooo grateful for best friends,buds and BFF's right now.Girls and guys both can understand this topic.I've now heard it through the proverbial 'grapevine'  that you can definitely include spouses...

She gave it to you straight..don't act like she wasn't talking to YOU!! but wait ladies there's more...

Are we actually that naive in life or do we intentionally play dumb.I guess it looks cool for the brooding Edward type from the twilight movies..

Why so serious...loosen up,laugh crack a smile."check your cool" at the door.

Duhh? you're out on a date. what's up with icy demeanor. I try to understand why you would agree to put yourself through an uncomfortable situation. Especially if the whole time you're stacking the deck against all that dares enter a 1on1 conversation.I'm sorry 'why so serious'? No one is having fun including you?When was it all about applying for a position and credit checks?I thought chemistry and laughing at cornyazz jokes was something you could build on.The fun is out of dating today.You may date some 'loons' before you find someone that really "get you" and vice versa, but THAT'S the adventure! I'm not always right by no means.What I am though is trusting in my ability to learn from prior experiences and not to ignore my gut.Lighten up..let someone know who you are..not just what you do for a living.Also look at yourself alone in a mirror and ask yourself "Am I interesting"? It's a valid question.You may need to work on you!Everyone in the right light or given the right libation is sexy,handsome or fine.Pay attention to the STOP signs. Ultimately this is suppose to be fun..do something to put him/her at ease, check your cool at the door...being 'too cool' or having an icy exterior is rude and self involved. No one should have to impress another human being for worthiness of a date?..sorry someone is "pi**ing on your head and telling you it's raining" because you are NOT that important,But! you may still be wondering why you 're still alone.....MM

Hey ladies!! If you want to impress him "sports challenge".

I want to let you ladies know something. Point blank! men enjoy women or at the very least their own woman to express a lil' interest or give a da*n about the sports they're into.Not a whole lot of interest but when your guy yells "TOUCHDOWN" he's referring to the football play. Not! the run along the sidelines to the cheerleader girlfriend to hand her the football...although...